Mom and MeThe past couple of weeks have been a little rocky. Unfortunately, we received some not-so-great news about my Mommy Dearest. While at a somewhat routine exam, we found a very large rectal tumor that turned out to be cancerous. The original prognosis was very bleak and had us all quite worried. However, the good news is, the cancer hasn’t spread and the surgeon thinks we’re going to be able to knock this out with surgery and a few weeks of treatments.

The current plan is to do six weeks of radiation treatment with a few rounds of chemo to kick it off. Then, we’ll let her body rest for six weeks and follow up with surgery to remove the tumor. Obviously, my mom isn’t thrilled, but we are pretty excited to have the chance to fight. We weren’t sure we would have that opportunity at first.

Anyone who knows my mom knows that it’ll take a heck of a lot more than a little (or not so little) tumor to set her back. While she might have a tough road ahead, we are a tough family, and this is just another bump in the road for us. We are encouraged. We are positive. And we will win. We will persevere and come out on the other side stronger, better, and ready for the next challenge. No doubt.

Why am I sharing this here? There are a few reasons actually.

  1. I use this space to document my life. This experience has been a big part of the last several weeks and will be an even bigger part of the next few months. Simply put, I don’t feel like I can write about fall wreaths and my favorite skinny jeans without also showing this side of my world.
  2. I truly believe in the power of being positive, even through the tough times. If I can share a positive outlook on such a dreary subject, maybe someone else will be empowered in their situation.
  3. Cancer is hard. Been there, done that. It’s a disease that affects many people at some point or another in their lives. By sharing our journey, I’m hoping to help someone find hope in theirs.
  4. Life is composed of the good, the bad, and the ugly. While I strive to make this space a positive one, I don’t believe in sugarcoating things or painting a false picture. My goal in sharing this journey is to show that everyone faces hard times. I don’t post on bad days, but believe me, they come. This part of my family’s journey is real, and I want to be real with my readers.

All of this being said, I still want to maintain a positive outlook here on My Neck of the Woods. However, we are beginning to fight cancer in My Woods, and I feel like it’s only fair to share. My sincere hope is that sharing this journey will inspire or provide hope to some of my readers. All prayers, well wishes, and happy thoughts are certainly appreciated. I share every message, text, call, and post with my mom, so feel free to leave some encouragement for her here.

(Photo from Mother’s Day 2013.)

14 thoughts on “Cancer.”

  1. Praying for y’all as you walk through this. The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear God, and delivers them. Praying that in the night when things seem overwhelming, that our Father in heaven will give you all courage & peace.

  2. I wish I was there to hug you all. I know she is a fighter and that y’all will all make it through. I pray for y’all all throughout my days. Just remember we are to praise him through the storm. Easier said then done.

    1. Thank you. Mom has been talking about how she misses you (and me too, of course). We need a get-together soon!

  3. Dear Pamela

    I have just found your blog (via good old Twitter) and it has really moved me. I lost my beloved sister and father to cancer last year. I know what you are going through and all I want to do is to send you so much love and a warm hug.

    I have read your article and it sounds as though you are being incredibly brave and strong. As you so rightly know, being positive is the greatest way to get through it all and that energy will give your mum strength. Cuddle and chat lots to each other 🙂

    Sending you infinite love,

    1. Thanks so much for the kind words, Jess! I lost my father to cancer, as well, and we’ve battled it several times in my family. I certainly understand how you feel too….there’s always an empty spot there when someone you love is gone. I’ll be thinking of you! I promise that it does start to feel a little more “normal” as more time passes.

      Thanks for taking the time to post and look around. I hope you’ll come back soon!

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